Dear readers! My grief is bitter and deep, my tale is not worthy to be told but i feel helpless against my heart which is not letting me hide this deep sorrow in it. I will need your attention for the a few coming months for the problems which have arisen mainly due to abuse of mobile phones, internet and free mixing. You are requested to share my grief and suggest me the corrective way forward to encounter these issues.
Letter No.8 The filthy daughter in law: Respected Hakeem Sahib Assalam-o-Alaikam, I am extremely worried about my son. He had had love marriage and it has been 7 months since then. His wife has almost destroyed the whole family and we are pissed off. The girl would do immoral things before her marriage for money and she has continued it even after the marriage. My son has fallen so blindly in her love that when he forbids her of doing that evil, she replies that ok, if you cannot bear with that, then divorce me but he says that he will die but will never divorce her. The girl has recently spent over a month abroad while alone and my son spent all this time being drunk. I do not have find courage to write further. Please suggest me a way out so that my home get rids of this filth.
Letter No.9: The damage of not observing veil: Respected Hazrat Hakeem Sahib, Assalam-o-Alaikam, May Allah bestow His Billions of Blessings upon you and your generations. I am feeling quite helpless and extremely distressed from the everyday quarrel in my family. My husband has started beating me. One day I went on the roof with my husband then he held me from my legs and dragged me downstairs and he broke my arm after beating me horrendously. He slapped me with full power and this shoke all my joints and nerves. My husband is in illicit relations with his elder brother’s wife. I did not want to leave my house initially but now I am feeling so pissed off that I want to leave my family and child as my child has also become disobedient after seeing all this disgrace to me. He pisses me a lot. I am just passing my time there. My husband always asks me why I return from my mother’s home and why I did not leave him. He does not bother to even look at me. And does not speak with me even I call him hundreds of times. He does not bother to talk even on phone in case of any emergency. He never loves his child. I am quite weak and need emotional and financial support. I am restless like a fish out of water in the nights. I want my matrimonial desires to be fulfilled by my husband but he does not let me close to him. One can bear with a dead one but it is extremely impossible to do so for a living one. I do not have words to tell you how I spend my nights. I am hanging on the crucifer for the last 9 years without any moment of comfort. When my husband comes back into the house, that lady shows him extra cares and does all what he says. She always poisons his mind against me. My husband is also obedient to her only. He has deprived me of my legitimate right of becoming a mother. Please suggest me a way out so that my husband turns back to his family.
Letter no. 10: the destruction of mobile and internet: Respected Hazrat Hakeem Sahib, Assalamo Alaikam, My younger brother teases me a lot and often abuses me. He has scared all of us and spends the whole night out with bad friends. He does not come to the home and smokes cannabis although he is just nineteen. He often steals money from the home and I and my mother are extremely troubled by him. He does not bother to study rather keeps on sleeping and spends the whole night outside. He spends even five thousand in seconds. We suspect that he might have indulged in gambling as well but when I ask him strictly, he minds it and starts quarrelling. He always remains busy on his mobile. Please suggest a suitable remedy for him.
Letter No. 11: what is happening inside the homes? Respected Hakeem Sahib, Assalamo Alaikam, my wife has gone to his maternal home for the last three and a half years and the case is now in the court as despite several of our reconciliation efforts, she bothers not agree. She demands a separate home which I cannot afford. I have a daughter for whom I pay 5000 rupees every month but still I am bound by the court. Now after such a long struggle, I have decided to leave the country for good. Please pray for me. May Allah bless you with the best of health and bless this wonderful Ubqari Organization with His Successes. Dear readers, i have presented a handful of the aggrieved writings to you. What is their remedy and what needs to be done is what you need to suggest. I will wait for your response.
